One of my mom's good friends husband of over 20 years passed. Since my mom told me I have been thinking about, what would I do if I lost Mr. J? I have always been a very independent woman and lived on my own for several years before moving in with Mr. J. I know that it would be a financial change, but have been blessed with a good job that I would be able to maintain my household. I think that it would be more emotional for me, of course. I know that I would have a support of my family and friends during my emotional crisis. It would be hard to have someone around you that you have a special connection with just go away. I guess it is like that when anyone that you love dies. Even though Mr. J and I have been only been married for 1 year, we have been together for 10. He is a huge piece of my life. With that piece gone, how would I be as a person? The thought of ever losing Mr. J, has me planning for the future by looking into more life insurance and writing a will. These are things that I thought older people did, not a person in their 30's. With marriage there comes new responsiblilty and planning can assist with the unforseen. With all of the planning, there would nothing that would replace what Mr. J means to me. I know that my mom's friend is a strong person and has a strong support system in place. Even with all that, I know nothing will replace her husband. I will continue to keep her and family in my prayers.
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